humane

As in my last posting about judgement,one of the point was behaviour.As our perceptions are based on one's behaviour.My view on this are a bit different,as behaviour is dependent on somany factors and if we,instead of reacting to other ,control our behaviour,we can avoid so many problems.
I would like to mention one small incident here-
One dynamic and intelligent couple started their married life, where man was working and wife was looking after the house only. One day in the evening a bit late,when he reached home form the office,wife came within few minutes with coffee. He told his wife- "Look dear at this time I wish, I could have some whiskey with warm snacks." She told no problem and asked him to change and get fresh.And in half an hour,she came with whiskey and good warm snacks. Both talked and enjoyed.
Next day in the morning, when he got up, wife came again with whiskey and snacks. He told look now I need good tea and peace to read news paper atthis time.Wife was surprised and asked how can I know what u need what time.
He told, look according to the time mood and requirements are changed. wife was not understanding and asked again why.
He told her," See in the morning from 4AM a Satwik Bela(Spiritual time) starts and we wish to remain in peace, wants to listen soft and spiritual music and read news papers, by the time it is 9 AM- Rajsik Bela(Governing time) starts and brain is occupied with ideas with what today is to be done, whose payment is pending, whom to send payment,what tax is due and what not".Then by the time it is 6Pm already Tamsik Bela(Enjoyment time starts.Now one likes to listen hot music,lovely jaamsof whiskey and spicy snacks and if some dance is also there then nothing like this.
Moral of the storey is "behaviour depends on the time also"
Krishna

Once I was reading an article from the book Of "Bhagwan Rajneesh".This was about not to judge everyone everytime.Initially I couldn't understand then-I read and this was really great as we become judge very fast.This is good, this is bad.This is right and this is wrong.We should take the things the way things are.Every body has reasons to behave the way one is behaving.This depends upon one's place of birth,one's bringing up in different circumstances,depends upon the kind of parents developed the person.So one's behaviour is dependent on so many factors.Hence we should not brand any one with any kind of adjectives.
Krishna

Sometime I feel I am Lost
In my thoughts
Which take me nowhere
I like to think,what is somewhre
My wishes takes me everywhere
But my realities takes me nowhere
I have developed a fear
which no body except me can hear
Then after a struggle I settle
I write down all my rattles
And I find I am not lost
I want the world to move as I want
But World moves as the time want
and this is my impatience
which stops me to mould
and I behave,as my dreams told,
So living in dreams does not harms
But we have to live in realities,
and can bring in life a lot charms